Break New Grounds

Happy new week! As you set out for activities this new week, I want to challenge you to break new grounds and do something different. Dare to be different. Do something better than the way you’ve been doing it.

Someone once said, if people knew what they had to do to be successful, most people wouldn't. Don’t be scared of taking new adventures or trying something new. Many of us know what we need to do to come out with distinctions, be the best employee, be a successful entrepreneur, the best spouse or make a relationship to work. Even we know what to do to have a glorious relationship with God.

If we know, then, why wait a little longer? Why procrastinate? Yours might be that you just like to do and follow what every other person is doing. You enjoy moving with the crowd. You are always moving by what others do or do not. Let me echo this to your ears that the man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. And the man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been. Got that? Good.

You want to succeed? You want to be great? You want to be the best? Then dare to break new grounds. Dare to do what others says is impossible. Don’t give up till you breakthrough and break forth.

And remember, your better grounds (days) are not behind you, they are before you.

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